What Trips Your Trigger?

The ways to reach that amazing state of arousal

Just recently I was given a list of questions to answer dealing with the almighty erection. The erection is the male tell tale sign of arousal.  It is the outward sign that the male has some blood flowing to his penis.  I stated that just because the penis is erect doesn't mean the male is mentally going to jump someone's bones.  It is just the outward signature of juices flowing. In the female there are definitely juices flowing as well as the vagina lips begin to be reddish in color and swollen.  Today's single question is what really trips your trigger or what causes the juices to start to flow down your thigh.

I'll begin with the five senses that most all humans have: Sight, Sound, Taste, Smell and Touch.  I recently read an article where couples were competing with each other and the winning team had the male's penis erect the fastest.  The erection had to come without manual stimulation or touch and insertion was obviously against the rules. What else can we do or have done to us that will get us excited enough to have our bodies modified in a pleasurable way?  Let me first deal with the easiest way in my opinion to become aroused, touch.

TOUCH

I'll say most orgasms are achieved by direct stimulation, either by a body part or an instrument.  The orgasm and release may be reached by these means but today's topic is how do we even reach the point of total excitement.  Before we even get to the section of arousal for an orgasm we have to have the body ready for release.  When touching is discussed it is not meant for just the genital region totally.  Someone may brush up against you seductively or rub your thigh.  The skin against skin feeling of a relaxing massage my be just enough to do it.  Where do you like to be touched?  Everyone is a little different and their area may be not the location you go straight toward.  Once you find that special area of a certain person they can be putty in your hands, literally.  

Pillows or couches or even bicycle seats all have been responsible for that cause of wetness to occur.  "Oh, I have to be careful riding my bike because if I start to get sweaty down there I'll start to really get wet".  I've heard this from female friends at the World Naked Bike Ride.  The vibration and the position of the seat between their legs has caused a fun friendly friction outcome.  For guys it may just be the movement of the penis within a pair of pants.  In addition, it may only take the feeling of water in a pool caressing the penis to be aroused.  Like I said, Touch is a no brainer to achieving the arousal state.

SMELL

In order to use smell as a catalyst for arousal you may need a frame of reference.  The sense of smell has been studied for quite a long time.  It's why we have a perfume section in the stores.  It may range from sweet smells to even a burly sweaty smell.  Smells are part of our primal sexual urges.  It is our way of deep down signaling for a partner and to show that we are ready to do the nasty.  The smell does not always have to deal with another person's aroma but it be be a smell that associates a person to a location or a time when a past sexual experience took place.  That whiff of a cool ocean breeze may harken back to a summer on the beach for Spring Break when early adulthood sex was at its finest.  It brings back memories and has a conditioned response or reaction to the nether region.  

For a personal story it doesn't go too far back.  In fact, the smell reaction took place at my last haircut.  It was not a place where I thought I'd become aroused.  The female stylist began her sculpting of my hair when all of a sudden I got a hint of some perfume.  I don't know what she had on but it made my penis jump toward the ceiling.  I was so glad for that backwards cape that they cover you with.  It served a few purposes that night.  It was all I could do to shorten the length of that unruly erection

TASTE

"Oh My Gawd, Have you tasted this chocolate cake?  It's orgasmic!"  The oral sensation of your favorite food may cause all sort of reactions.  It's what keeps us coming back for more at the buffet as well as the buffet of sensual pleasure.  Much of a sexual experience with a couple is begun with foreplay which at times includes oral sex.  Whether it be from ingredients from a Betty Crocker mix or even a taste of Betty the oral fixation can get the arousal state to the dinner table.

Maybe it's because I'm not a big eater (of food) but taste hasn't gotten me to that ideal state of arousal.  I wish I had more of a personal story for you but I just haven't had something on my tongue sweet enough.

SOUND

Phone sex revolves around this sense.  One of the most intense senses is the sense of hearing and sound.  Talk dirty to me. Tell me how you like it.  You want to hear that response of your partner.  It heightens the experience. It shows that the missile is hitting its intended target.  Although, the faked orgasm it ultimately held together by sound.  Oh God , yes baby give it to me. Oh ya baby, you know how to do it.  Not only does sound involve words but the physical sound made by a body in motion.  It could be the slapping of skin or the sound of moisture mixed with the actual physical sense of moisture.  

With sound comes direction , with direction comes control.  If a female says to take your clothes off or any gender hears another person is commanded to strip naked that may be just enough to entice that submissive into total arousal.  When a person knows that they have you in the palm of their hand they can order a meal at Taco Bell and have it come off erotic.  I knew a girl that could just yawn a certain way and I was a spent cookie.  Just the right sexy , sultry voice can win over a conversation.  If that owner of the voice knows what they are doing , they can be dangerous.  Just like Pavlov's dogs, an individual can be conditioned to respond in an aroused manner by a look, touch and even a slight vocal tone.

I must admit that more computer's volumes are turned down at night because of that sound that may give away a night of alone time.   You just want that video to not be so loud or the girl just needs to moan at a lower octave.  

SIGHT

An unfortunate by product of being a nudist and seeing my friends nude regularly is that I may be too used to seeing nude people.  Magazines and bares have lived off of the fact that people are ultimately voyeurs initially.  That young boy found his manhood by finding dad's Playboy under the bed.  Sight provided an in-sight into what he may be missing or what he will soon crave.  It's not tough to look at the opposite sex and see what you don't have and wish to have it.  

Sight offers up images of areas not normally touched on your own body.  It's an object of sexuality if raised to believe certain body parts are there for sexual experiences only.  If you are a nudist then you are comfortable around the opposite sex because you see the person before you see the body parts that you see on a day to day basis.  When you see a male topless cutting his lawn you see a hairy chested guy and move on from it.  Although, if a female sees a hot bare chested guy dripping with sweat that sight may just cause her to run home and strip those yoga pants off and reach for BOB.  We are in a day and age where the female nipple is campaigning for release from its prison.  If the female nipple is a normal thing to be seen then hopefully, possibly the female nipple or breast will not be so sexually objectified.  The female breast may look leaps and bounds better than a male breast but that doesn't mean it has to be hidden.

I won't admit to being a choir boy under my nude robes.  There are times when seeing a nude body in just the right moment or the right shape that trips your trigger that causes a reaction.  We are still human.  We still admire a shape and how mother nature has molded it.  

We have gone over the sight of a naked body but that is a static display.  If you get a naked or clothed body involved in almost any act the viewer can become aroused.  If she bends over to pick something off the floor and her perfect ass is displayed for you it can be lights out.  Gratuitous nudity is definitely used to pump up ratings for any move or show.  Oh the story may be perfectly written but add a couple boob or ass shots and you have a summer sensation.

THE MIND FUCK

I don't want to use the term Sixth Sense because then you might imagine Bruce Willis naked.  If that trips your trigger than so be it but put your mind on idle for now.  The psychological mind fuck can string a person along for hours, days if not years.  Depending on how string your mental will is you can fight against it if you want.  The idea of potentially seeing someone naked or clothed can drive a person wild.  Oh my God I can't wait until Saturday.  I hope they are coming.  I haven't seen them in so long.  Your mind alone can stir you up so bad that the build up is more enticing than the actual event.  

The term, "Wrapped around their finger" means that the ultimate mind fuck is happening to someone.  It may be lead by sexual favors or just some means of psychological control.  If you are wrapped around someone in hopes that you will some day be wrapped around them literally then you know that mind control is paramount when it comes to getting to an aroused state.  If all you have to do is think about a person or a possible experience then no matter what sense comes in to play the state of arousal will be on its way.

When I wake up as a human kick stand it does not happen by the senses since I don't wrap myself in clothes or silk sheets.  It happens because my mind is relaxed and a dream may have occurred.  The mind itself is a powerful thing and should not be wasted for it may be only way you can get your juices dripping down your leg.  I look forward to see what my day or night dreams produce.

THE UNKNOWN

I call this section the cover all.  There are times when you may get aroused for no reason at all.  You are God damn gifted Gump and can just walk around juicing yourself for no apparent reason.  As a younger teen into your twenties it may just occur because you were breathing.  The effortless state of arousal is some of the best surprises.  Oh hey, look what just happened.  It may be a combination of one of the senses combined with a self mind fuck.  

As an example, I was modeling at an event with a few other nude models.  One female model got down from her pose and sheepishly asked if anyone could tell how wet she got.  I honestly wasn't looking there.  She had stated that just being up on the stand and knowing she was being looked at got her all excited.  She just experienced an exhibitionists self mind fuck.  It is what drives exhibitionists to strip for others and enjoy the eyes doing the the elevator move.  We, I mean some, live off of that rush and use it for those dreams in the future.  

For my own experience with this unknown I shall set the scene.  I was enjoying a warm summer evening naked on my deck.  It may have been a relaxed feeling from a can of Bud Light and/or a warm summer breeze caressing my twig and berries but up it went to a strong erection.  I wasn't even in the mind set and the senses weren't truly at a high level but none the less I was ready for something.  That arousal state came out of nowhere only to be capped off with a full release as if a ghost hand had wrapped around me.  Let's say I didn't complain but was glad I didn't mess my shorts.  A natural arousal state au naturel.

BOTTOM LINE

What ever trips your trigger, thank what ever entity for it.  It will reduce your stress and make each and every day it occurs the most fantastic experience until your next piece of chocolate.  Turn your faucets on and let it out, up or in.  Clean up aisle three please!!!

It's best to strip naked with friends when it's blazing hot outside

Nature Fest 2014

It may have been blazing hot as a normal St. Louis Summer would prove to be but it was not going to stop me from enjoying my weekend.  When you plan an event or a vacation or even lunch you can't predict the weather.  You have to take your chances on what the rain or sun Gods thrown at ya.  

The awesome Teya King had wanted to do an outdoor StlBared event in the form of a camping trip for quite some time.  We wanted to give our nude crew some outdoor time together in nature and watch the good times happen before our eyes.  If you think an outdoor event with Teya will just be hot dogs and tent stakes then you don't know Teya.  She will book it, promote it as if it is a new show on the Vegas strip.  Come hell blazing temps or Jack Frost nipply weather a Teya show or event will be a blow out.  

The plan was for our Bared members to start the RSVP number but through advertising and marketing the numbers were bound to grow.  Although event locations ended up changing that did not stop us from baring it all in the wilderness.  Even though the sound band backed out on us, Edick's way played on into the late night hours.

I began my experience by showing up early on Friday to assist in setting up the campground.  I barely got out of my truck when an ATV pulled up.  This was my time to be shown around and explained the lay of the land.  There was a lake.  There were springs, gazebos, tree houses and chickens galore.  Yes there were farm animals all over the property roaming free as if not a care in the world.  Within a few hours naked people would too be roaming the grounds without a care in the world.  But before all that took place I had to mow some grass.  I was over joyed.

"Can someone get me a drink? I'm sweating my ass off!"  It didn't take too long in this extreme heat wave to make begin a large dose of swamp ass.  I have never looked so much right out of the shower without even being in a shower since my days in the desert around 29 Palms.  The heat was oppressive.  Could I survive this weekend?  Could I find it in me to enjoy being naked in this weather?  That's how much this lifestyle means to me and the friends I have around me.  I laced up my tennis shoes and decided I think I can make it.  It also helped that I fixed the AC in the A frame building and made a nest by myself in 73 degree temps.  

The first night at the campground found a bunch of naked friends circled up telling naked war stories and laughing the night away one drink at a time.  It was good to see the regulars and always a blast to see the newbies show up to see what we are all about.  We are always a welcoming bunch and may all at ease the best we can.  

The next morning I woke up with a big cock crowing in the morning and welcoming me to another naked day.  For a moment it was bizarre to to walk to the common area wearing what I fell asleep in.  "Ummm, did I forget something?"  Since I'm an old pro at this I continued on with my morning greetings and nawed on a banana and granola bar for breakfast.  After breakfast I decided to freshen up by taking a shower wherever I could find a high pressured hose to rinse the soap off.  Oh, I didn't skimp on the loofa either.  I spoiled myself with a good scrub down.  

Since these are the days of the ALS ice bucket challenges I thought this was the best time to pour ice water all over myself.  It was quite a team effort to make the video just right in the name of Spencer.  Please press play for your viewing pleasure.

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Now that the goofiness is done with in the morning it was down to serious artistic endeavors.  One of my passions is the product of great scene through a camera lens.  This weekend there had been planned a Nudes in Nature photo shoot.  Time to put my hat on backwards to get creative.   The perfect scenes and all filled in with sweaty nude bodies.  It was like chocolate combined with peanut butter.  It was like Peas and carrots.  What a combo.  I could feel the juices flowing all the while seat dripped into my eye.  I got down and dirty for this shoot. I wasn't going to miss an angle.  I get into my shots.  For a bonus I get sprayed down for another shower from another helpful nude participant.  They didn't miss a bit of dirt.  If they did then I wouldn't have been allowed back into the pool.

These are some of my favorites from the weekend.  

It truly took it all out of me once I out my camera equipment away.  It was all I could do to finish a hoggie sandwich that I had been nursing all weekend.  The last bit of energy was devoted to listening to a great blues band that came out to serenade us naked people under the hot starry night.  I was spent. The heat and activities had done me in.  No matter if I was in my element as a naked ass me  I craved AC.  I took my sweaty ass once again back down to the A frame alone and stinky.  The AC felt great but didn't help hide the fact that I was Naked and Afraid out in the middle of nowhere in pitch black darkness.  Jason from Crystal Lake or residents of a past by gone era were sure to show up.  With every creek or bang on the building  my nerves were worked up to a frenzy.  Oh God, please don't have a shadowy figure enter the room.  I said please don't! That story and how it ended will be for another blog.  

Once again my cock woke me up early in the morning and pointed me to the truck where the salvation mobile was parked and ready to see the highways.  It was a blast and sure to do it again once I rehydrate.  What a fantastic way to spend one of the hottest weekends in 2014! 

The ins and out of the Erect Penis otherwise known as a Boner

Quite recently a female friend had some interest in the erection or “Boner” as she called it.  Since she brought ‘Up” the topic in more ways than one I tasked her to write out her questions and I would as directly answer any questions that she had.  No matter the age of a person there are always questions about the opposite sex unless you may the famous Masters and Johnson from Washington University.  Even they had very little knowledge of the erection until they began their studies. 

I have been wanting to bring light to the plight of the erection for quite some time.  I want to de-villianize the erection.  I want to show that the boner as she called it is not to be feared and looked upon in disgust by some that misunderstand it. There is a major push to desexualize the female nipple as Scout Willis has recently campaigned in the anti-Instagram photo shoot.  Females have longed for equal rights for being topless.  A male may take his short off in the park or walking the dog down the sidewalk nut if a female shows her bare breasts it is not indecent.  Thank God some states have seen the light and have allowed the female nipple to be exposed.  At the moment burlesque dancers still maintain the pasty to cover that damn villain of a nipple.

The female that put me on the path of this blog spoke of one of her burlesque routine as a boner inducer.  She stated that she knew it was a hot routine and hoped it caused guys to get hard.  In the same way, strippers or exotic dancers count on erections to cause a guy to open their wallets to fund their night.  It is said that many men are guided by their little heads.  The boner is looked upon when needed for a method of motivation but not always welcomed and needing to be covered or even a cause of embarrassment for guys when they aren’t wanting one to be visable. 

 

I have modeled in the nude on many occasion and many of those times I’ve modeled alongside of nude females.  On more than one modeling assignment a nude female has come up to take a break from a pose and disclosed how wet she had gotten while in the pose.  The female is able to experience that state of arousal easily because of the lack of outward sign.  Even if a nipple became erect it would be tough to tell or even noticed.  While modeling I too have gotten excited but fought “hard” to stay flaccid.  My key to such calmness is by singing “I’m Henry the VIIIth I am” over and over.  It has always worked.

I am very appreciative of “Kim” for questioning me about my experiences and thoughts on erections or boners.  I use “Kim” because she does not want to have her real name used for fear that she wants more information and thinks about the male anatomy so much.  Here is my best attempt to answer all of her questions all the while maintaining a strong erection.

Kim: Do they hurt?

Maybe it’s because I like a little pain with them I’d say no.  Honestly, they do not hurt.  Even when faced with the hardest erections it may feel as though it will rip right through the skin the extreme pressure juts build more excitement.  When having an intense erection you are wanting that full pressure so it is a welcomed feeling.

Kim:  Can you control getting a boner? Can most men? Is it normal to control them?

Once out of your early twenties most guys should be able to control them to a great extent.  When younger even a strong gust of wind or smell of a hamburger could get a guy hard.  As I have mentioned before with a little bit of mind control most erections can be held back.  Alcohol is one item that prevents some lack of control.  When a guy is totally relaxed as in laying on the couch or sound asleep the erection can pop up with little thought or control.  Most mornings there is still that experience of morning wood where it’s so intense it wakes you from your sleep.  Luckily I still have those times when even a strong gust of wind can bring the mast back to the ship.

Kim: Can you pee with a boner?

When in the full erect fashion the tubes are switched so it’s either set to pee or to cum.  There is that time when the penis may look erect but the switch is still on pee mode.  Most the time if having a boner the only liquid will be cum.

Kim:  How do they go away? What can a guy do to make it go away?

At times it’s just a matter of time.  Letting the blood flow away from the penis.  That is the clinical answer.  You would think ejaculating would do it but it at time just reinforces it. Thought control is a great way and many try to think of a negative thought.  If that erection is meant to be it is tough to control it once it’s set on it’s path but continual thought control will achieve it’s goal.  Bottom line is don’t pay any attention and it’ll let go of all the blood in your system.

As an added note to this question:  To maybe prevent a boner during a time where you may think one will appear and you are wanting it to be avoided I have used the technique of let’s say “wearing it out” prior to the needed time when an erection is needing to be avoided.

Kim:  Can you really get blue balls from getting a boner?

Physically the balls do not get blue.  When a penis does not ejaculate during a full boner the cum does go back inside.  When at full erection the liquid is being slowly pumped to the tip and when at that right moment it will come out.  If an erection is lost for any reasons during that process the tip will still be moist as the shrinkage does not allow some to reenter the body.  For some it may look like pre cum.

Kim: What does it mean emotionally to get a boner?

For some as I‘ve said is an embarrassment due to their background and possible early shaming or complexes of one thing or another.  For others it is a proud moment to see their little boy rise to the occasion.  At times the erection means it is a moment before a sexual activity so the rush of excitement is there.  I would like to state while in this question a main reason for this blog is to show that being erect is not always a display of wanting to have sexual experiences.  As for me personally, If I become erect it just may be because I’m relaxed, enjoying the moment or aroused at the moment.  I enjoy the feeling whether it be emotionally , psychologically or physically.  The ultimate payoff may be the orgasm resulting from the erection but for me, the intense erection is the pay off of having this item attached to me.

Kim:  Does a boner mean a physical attraction? Just because a female is physically attractive does that mean you will get a boner?

No is the short answer.  A guy can get a boner from just walking around the house or watering his sunflowers.  What are they attracted to at that moment?  The microwave or the pollen in the air?  I’ve been naked around extremely hot naked females and have been soft.  Much of it is due to being so used to seeing nude females.  Much of it is in the mind.  A boner still at times has to be caused by direct contact.  If when nude and seeing a person nude or clothed hot female the mind has to be with it as well. 

Kim:  How old are males when they get their first boner? Does anyone explain it to them?

I believe I may have been around 12 or 13.  If there is nothing to cause the experience then it has to come naturally and without direct contact.  It may be that hot tv show that caused a young male to experience it for the first time.  For most males there is no explination and therefore the first discussion may be embarrassment or shaming by parents or my school or by religion.  In addition, since it is all new to the male they may not want to discuss or reveal this issue to friends or family thus causing repression.  Only later in life and through porn or self discovery the male may stumble with experimentation to find out how the erection functions and why.  The males first exposure may cause a long lasting imprint of the males overall thought and usage of an erection.  I could go on for days on this one. 

For me, no one explained it.  I just kind of went with it and figured it out in showers and “playing doctor” with the neighbor girl.  Religion and God was a major repressor in that an erection if not used under a bible’s guide meant hell is waiting for ya.

Kim:  Do you have to have a boner to have sex?

Ultimately you need some sort of erection to have sex.  It’s not that easy to insert a penis without having some rigidity.  Once inside you do not have to have a full on intense erection to continue through the act.  If you do “lose it” the ability to thrust is now gone.  Cock rings are good for allowing the penis to stay erect for quite some time due to maintain the blood level in the penis.

Kim: Does the size of the vagina matter to keep a penis erect?

Not always and I mean that it’s not always the tightness of a vagina that causes pleasure for a man and his erection.  It is also a combination of the warmth and moisture.

Kim:  What kind of sensation does the boner have right before ejaculation?

There is an outward display of fullness in the head caused by the extreme build up of pressure.  The pressure is so intense that it begins to electrify the skin all over the body that make cause spasms.  Once in the spasm moment causes an involuntary release.

Kim: Can you get boners repeatedly? How long do they last?

It is all caused by the blood movement so if there is blood and stimulation then there are boners.  I personally can reach orgasm and then continue with the erection.  Once again, it’s very much a mind game.  I also stated earlier that before some events where I don’t want a boner I may “wear it out”.  If I empty out what is causing the boner the less the chances of being erect again.  If unable to void any cum then a boner can come and go all day until relieved. It can be an annoyance if continually being reacted to by any slight thought or movement  throughout the day.

Kim:

Since I know you are a nudist does it hurt to have a boner in pants or underwear? Does having a boner feel better when nude? Do you feel you have more boners because you are nude so much more?

It doesn’t hurt to have a boner when dressed but it just holds it back from its full potential.  Of course it feels better when nude because it has more chances to reach its full potential and for me it has more excitement of the skin.  It’s extremely electrifying to be nude and feel the breeze across an erection.  Oh Lord I almost went into my erotica voice and wrote a chapter lol. Finally, yes I have more when nude because  it is able to relax and be free however if nude at an event then the activity dictates the want to have an erection as if on stage or doing improv comedy.

Kim:  Does having a boner mean you want to have sex?

I am so glad you asked that question.  For many who fear the boner or think of it as nasty or an embarrassment  do not truly understand the erection.  A boner is mostly in the mind and/or a natural reaction to blood flow caused by some sort of stimuli.  Wanting to have sex is not caused by a boner.  I’ll use the thoughts of gun control and shootings.  Guns don’t kill people; people kill people.  Boners/erections  don’t fuck people; people fuck people.  Just because a guy may be erect does not mean they are coming to throw you down and have it you.  That male should be judged by his actions not his physical reactions.

If Scout Willis wants to walk around without a shirt on then she should be able to.  If a person shows disgust at that sight then it is the hang ups of that individual.  If a guy gets erect then that guy with have goose bumps or a cough or a sneeze.  That guy is just having a natural body reaction.  There are many things that go into having a boner and many aspects of it.  I hope I have answered the questions posed to the best of my ability.  I know there is much more to say about them.  I personally enjoy every second of mine.  I tried to maintain one throughout this blog but I’ll say again over the course of time they too do not last. 

Cleaning the house is not always our favorite thing to do unless...

Cooking

Cooking for me is a major way for me to relax after a long , stressful day at work.  It's a way to control all that is in the oven and prepare a meal just how I want it.  When in the right time and situation I obviously will strip off everything to get fully into the ingredients.  For some odd reason I seem to be naked more times in the kitchen than in my own bedroom.  All those utensils used just right . :)

Aprons were meant for messy cooks and those who wished to fry bacon in the nude.  Feel  free to whip off that apron and break out your favorite recipe for lasagna.  Now that you are naked in the kitchen let the ingredients fly.  If naked pasta isn’t your thing then maybe a nice sautéed T-bone steak would meet to your delicate nude palette.  Some say that God’s original plan was for there to be naked vegetarian’s in the garden of Eden.  If that’s the case then why did he have to mention ribs?  For the average person the majority of time spent in the home is in the kitchen.  You must be comfortable in your favorite room so strip down and browse the cookbooks for a recipe that will allow a braising of warm broth upon your naked body.  Don’t let the microwave cheapen this adventure.  Preheat the oven for a full home cooked meal with nothing but the napkin getting in your way of experiencing nude delicious delights.  Don’t forget to save some leftovers for tomorrow’s nude reheating. 

Cleaning

It may be OCD or just my way of feeling centered at home but I need to have things clean and in their correct place. I need the dishes in the \correct pattern and the counters wiped off.  Mmmmm, the feeling of walking on a freshly vacummed carpet.  It may be because I just have to be naked doing everything but cleaning the house seems to require it.  It's not a job we all want to do but find a better way to do it.  If you put a ca,era on me you'll see me after 10 pm every night and on Tuesday mornings running around the house naked with a vaccum or doing the dishes.

It’s a necessary evil, it has to be done.  Grab a dust rag, a vacuum or a broom and prepare to make your surroundings sparkle.  You may want to dress as a French maid or just play the part with just an apron on but total nakedness will bring a weekly eagerness as never seen before.  It’s  a great excuse to run around your house naked with a bottle of window cleaner.  Once you finish cleaning the shower, just step in and turn on the water.  What’s even better is to bring all your dirty dishes with you to the shower and suds the pots and pans while you let the shampoo set in.  It’s a time for perfect naked efficiency.  So much can be cleaned while in the nude.  You must not forget all that laundry you can get done while naked.  It makes total sense to wash every bit of clothing at one time.

More naked adventures

After spending Friday night naked with a large group of friends I had to share it all with you on blog form.  Below I will state how it is a great time any time you strip off your clothes and bust a move.  As long as I have been going naked and then hanging out with friends , being naked when dancing is almost unnoticeable.  It's just the freedom of movement and the relaxed atmosphere.  When in a club your mind may be distracted by trying a line on a possible mate or just somewhere you may feel attracted to.  You even see that hot lil number she is wearing and just go nuts over.  When you look across a dance floor and see that person naked, well all that is left behind because at times it is a dream come true to be able to see a perfect body in motion.  

The shades are closed, you took the day off of work and Footloose is blaring through your speakers.  It’s time to strip down and dance as if no one is watching.  Do the happy dance because tomorrow is Friday or because gas prices went down.  Whatever your reason to dance is, it’s always better completely naked.  Ultimate bliss and joy spreads through you as you feel as if you are reenacting Swan Lake . 

Now dancing naked is one expressive nude adventure but when it includes a hand full of dollar bills then it is a whole way of life for the struggling college student.  Why work your way through undergrad in a fast food restaurant or at the mall when you can pay your rent, car payment and English 101 in one night.  Dancing for an audience on a pole or even in a burlesque show is naked expressions at its Fine Arts best.  The graceful movement of the bare legs, the twist of the hips and movement of a bare butt can tantalize the best of viewers.

Nude Photography

No, you may not be Hugh Heffner or Larry Flynt but most people can say they have had a nude photo taken of themselves.  If you haven’t then you most likely have seen a nude photo of a Playboy model .  Ok, now if you say you have never seen a photo of another person while nude then I’m not sure you realize this book is about the art of being nude.  Please close the book right now and look for the nearest  exit.  Nude photo locations are around every corner since it can be seen through this book that any place you can stand or sit you can do it while naked.  Being naked for all to see is definitely a rush but added with the lasting power of a photo the naked experience is multiplied.  With the right lighting and certain amounts of shading a not-so perfect body can still show off the skin in a sensual form.  Whether you are playfully strutting your stuff in the bedroom, in the park, on the beach or posing for a magazine let your inhibitions strip away as the flash blubs pop.

I've taken photos of nude people many times and have been nude in many photos but soon I'll be nude as the photographer while shooting nude subjects.  I'm so excited to be working with some of my favorite model friends and do it all in the great outdoors.  I won't say too much about it now but stay tuned for a sampling once I make them proper for this blog.

Free Fiction Friday

Nora and Mike's story continues ...

Nora's hands wrapped around my neck, digging her high-priced nails into the soft skin under my hairline. I pressed into her and held myself there. 
"Fuck, Mike," she breathed. 
"We are." 
I bent down and captured her lips. She opened her mouth, letting our tongues dance like teenagers in a mosh pit. I pressed against her, easing a moan from her throat. But I still didn't give her everything she wanted. She pulled back, her teeth tugging my lower lip and dragging it with her. A sharp pain eased through my skin. I liked it. 
"Hard and now," she ordered. 
I leaned back, careful not to move my cock an inch, and reached for her ankles. She didn't resist as I lifted them and set them on my shoulders. Her silky skin against my rough neck drove me crazy, but I wanted to savor this moment for a bit longer. I slid out, leaving the tip of my cock on the edge of her entrance. Her eyes widened and she licked her lips, slowly dragging her tongue over her lower lip. 
That did it. I couldn't wait any longer. I bent forward, thrusting into her as her calves slid up my shoulders until her knees rested against my neck. I pressed down on her, doubling her up. 
She moaned, but that wasn't enough. I needed to hear her scream. I slammed against her, causing enough friction to power a small village. 
"Harder," she moaned. "Fuck me harder."
Nora didn't have to tell me twice. I grabbed her shoulders to hold her in place and fucked her harder than I'd ever fucked a woman before. Her constant hiss of "yes" and "more" pushed me on. I held nothing back except my own orgasm. 
When I couldn't hold on, she screamed. Not my name. She screamed "Fuck yes" at the top of her lungs. Her body rocked around me and I let go 
I came hard enough to knock myself across the room. 
Stars pressed into my vision as complete contentment slithered through my body. I collapsed on top of her, almost passing out. 
"Holy shit," she whispered through labored breath. 
I couldn't speak, so I nodded in agreement. 
"You knocked the color out of my vision. All I can see are stars." 
She pressed her hands against my chest. Reluctantly, I moved. My legs couldn't hold me for long so I fell back into my chair. Nora slid to the edge of the table. Her pussy swollen and wet. God, even though I'd just had her I wanted her again. I'd never seen a more perfect woman. 
"Whatever you had planned for this weekend, cancel it." She slowly stood, wavering a bit. Putting her hands on each arm of my chair, she leaned forward until her lips brushed mine. "Like you said, we're just getting started."

To be continued...

2014 St. Louis World Naked Bike Ride

2014 St. Louis World Naked Bike Ride

On 7/26/2014 I rode naked through the streets of St. Louis for the sixth time.  Each time is unique as the first time.  The experience is a rush, is breathtaking, is freeing and an all around fantastic time.  I’ve been scuba diving, jumped out of a plane and piloted my own plane but nothing comes close to letting it all fly in the wind.  I’ll try to explain how this all feels but you will never fully comprehend how transcendental it all can be.

The ride begins for me in February since I am part of the planning committee to whatever extent they need me.  This year I was more of the social media lil bitch and posted items as needed to keep the riders up to date.  I posted tid bits or any pieces of interest to build and keep the interest alive.  Believe it or not there is more than choosing a route and stripping off clothes.  You have to cross all t’s and dot all I’s all the while having the city’s interests and riders interests at heart.  It’s not always easy to balance.  There will always be a few items that some will critique on or even complain.  We do our best.

Once the day of the ride arrives I’m at a point of just wanting it over with.  I’ve seen the date in the future so many times and have looked over any items hundreds of times.  I’ve also answered many of the same questions more times than I care to.  I have to remind myself why the first time I rode and try to regain the newness of the ride.  I always make it a mission to be the first naked person in the gathering location.  There are always a little bit of precautions each year to hold off on nudity right away.  There is always someone who disregards it and I tend to be the second naked person in the area.  Oh well.

When I finally drop that thong to the ground and start to walk the streets naked, I’m in my element.  I become part exhibitionist and part voyeur.  I’ve been naked and seen naked so many times.  I’ve seen so many people naked in my life.  At times I feel I’m desensitized to it all.  That part I do not like.  I still want it to be new and exciting.  I know it’s not a big deal to be naked but that little kid comes out and I have to accept it.  One part of being an open nudist it to dispel the fears and hang ups many people have with being nude or seeing a nude person.  What can I do to get society to overcome the fears and stereotypes ?  I may put too much on my own shoulders?  As much as I may be naked I still can’t let go of some things.  I want all to be comfortable and at ease with the whole subject. 

Now that I over thunk it all, I can get on my bike and ride in a massive pack of clothing optional, fun loving peeps.  Its part bike ride and part parade.  The bars and hotels empty out and the cars stop in the streets to honk and smile.  I’ve never seen so many cell phones hanging out car windows.  It seems the crowds along the streets approve or at least watch like a car wreck going by.

I love the feeling and sight of the finish line. Yay, I can get off this sweaty bike seat and drink a lil to relax.  Should I roam the streets naked or bar hop.  I do a little of both.  I have to spread myself thin to meet all the friends that are doing all of the above.  It still is a trip to walk around a bar completely naked and have clothed people getting a beer right alongside.  I love how they act natural and play it cool.  Wonder what they are thinking.

There is always that part in the night where I have to end it all and get dressed.  I hate it .  I despise it.  Ok, a few times I denied it and drove home naked.  It’s not the first time and won’t be the last.  I’ll live off the feeling for about a month until I think of what’s next on the naked front.  I hope to see you all there next year .  Now why didn’t I come home with all the clothes I wore down there?