Let's simply take a look at Boobs

Boobs or Tits?

There is so much to talk about when it comes to boobs.  First and foremost is the name itself.  I'm not going to get all hung up on the title of the body part.  The common terms are either Boobs, Tits or Breasts.  For this blog I think I'll go with boobs to keep it consistent.  I'm using the term boobs for no other reason than, I can.  You may have your own name or preference and I will go along with that when I read your blog about boobs.  Fair enough? Now on with the show!

Many times my blogs are written because I want to get something off my chest.  Ha, Get it? See what I did there?  Sorry.  This blog got an inspiration from a recent chat with a friend of mine.  The chat centered around what body parts look good in clothes and which ones are stand alone in their nude value. My friend said that her boobs look fantastic in a nice lacy bra or at times needing to be pushed up.  This blog will attempt to discuss parts of the boob, the feel of the boob and what makes a fantastic boob that some may look for when shopping in aisle three for their ideal boob.  I'm going to put on display some areas that can be used but once again this is subjective and not an end all scoring system for boobs.  

For starters, I'd like to introduce my friend and reason for this blog.  Readers, please welcome "Jill" to the blog.

Jill wanted to show you her beautiful boobs for the blog to help get a start to this conversation.  By looking at her boobs words or nipples are about to poke right out of your screen. While chatting, we discussed what parts of a boob make it to be a "10" on a scale of 1 to 10.  Obviously boobs are rated by the eyes , mouth or hands of the beholder. What Jill and I wish to do is to create a measurable look into certain areas of the boob.  I shall start in no certain order.

*** Disclaimer: A person's body is perfect in many ways.  We all have body image issues , large or small.  Unfortunately not everyone is comfy in their own skin.  This blog wishes to recognize that somewhere in us we all have our likes and dislikes for a person, whether it is a personality trait or body style.  When we find the right combo then we may even start a relationship.  This blog is meant for pure pleasure only and is not intended to set a perfect standard. ***

Cup Size

Does her cup runneth over?  Here's one of the BIG debates in the universe.  Do you like big boobs or the tiny boobs?  What size makes your hands or mouth feel just right?  In this today's American society many think that bigger is better.  It has been shown that the boob of today has grown to a higher average.  If you like small boobs than that may be a thing of the past.  I won''t get into the reasons why boobs are growing all over the nation but it seems cleavage is not going away, nor should it.  

I'll imagine a person's preference of boob size may be depending on what their overall pleasure of them is.  Do they like to motor boat them?  Are they just a nipple sucker?  Do they just like to fondle the boob or are they purely visual?  You truly have to ask yourself why you care if a female has a small bust or large bust.  If you are like me you are just happy there are boobs visable and God has graced upon me sight and light in order to view the boob.  

Fake Vs. Real

Since we got "Size" out of the way we might as well move right into why size seems to need to be changed or modified.  To begin with I do recognize the reasons for reductions or those that have gone through surgery or an illness.  Not every procedure to the boob is done for purely cosmetic reasons.  The fake boob may have come out of the itty bitty titty committee.  They may have seen that their tiny boobs just weren't cutting it for themselves or their partners.  Bigger isn't always better unless you want to fill out a shirt or a dress.  The showing of cleavage can be just at good at times as showing the whole boob.

The thing about fake boobs is that all but the look is fake.  A fake boob has a firmness that even the firmest of real boobs don't have.  The nipple is still up in the air for me with fake vs real.  How does a fake nipple work out?  Can it still go soft and then get erect? Maybe I'm showing my bias.  Maybe I want that soft feeling and feeling or pushing into a real boob.  There are so many shapes and sizes or boobs so I say enjoy the shape you have and let them be a part of you.  Your boobs are your signature up front.

Nipple

To me, the nipple is the smile on the face of the boob.  It's the icing on the cake.  A boob may have a great shape or hang but if the nipple is a bit off or just not right then the bare boob may be a little underwhelmed.  Although if a boob is smaller or what may seem as less perky but the nipple has a great color or erection to it then that may be the best boob in the world. I'm sorry I guess you have found my weakness, the nipple.  

Within the nipple realm is the perky nipple, the puffy nipple, the inverted nipple and the gumdrop nipple.  

This is a gum drop and you have hopefully seen the gum drop nipple.  They are fuller and pop out of the boob.  These type of nipples are the holy grail of nipples due to their ability to shine right through any clothing top.  These type may need  some sort of tape just to keep them down.  No bra or padding may control the strongest of gum drops.

Our friend "Jill" wanted to weigh in again on the fact of gum drop nipples.  

I could show you examples of nipples to the end of the day but I'm sure we have seen them before.  The nipple is truly the personality of the boob.  

Pencil Test

If you have not heard of the pencil test it is a test to gauge the amount of hang time a boob has.  When you place a pencil under the boob will the boob be able to hang onto the pencil?  If the boob can hold on how far under the boob can the pencil go? The less of an ability to hold the pencil shows the firmness of a boob.  If a boob has begun to slope down thru time and/or gravity then less probability to hold a pencil.  Once again, everyone has their taste and shape of a boob.  There is much to be said about the hang of a boob.  A firm boob has it's fans but a boob that can hang down when a female leans overs creates such a pleasurable viewage.

Over time most every boob will be able to hold a pencil if real.  The boob may hold up better than some but then some boobs are just meant to have a tear drop shape.  If you wish to include the pencil test then firmness is a quality that you are looking for.

Other factors

Even after all that we have set scores or levels to there is still the unknown or 'X' factor.  This variable is set by the person that may be evaluating the particular set of amazing boobs at the time.  Some of the specifics that a person may use to say, "hey, wow, I love those boobs", may be if they have tan lines or that the nipple is more pink or reddish or brown.  Each person's taste is going to be different.  

What does the perfect boob look like or feel like? The world may never know but I'm sure we'll never stop looking, tasting, feeling and judging. I for one am a supporter of the free the nipple campaign.  Once we as a society see the boob and/or the nipple exposed on a regular basis then it will become the norm.  In a way the boob can be sexual in that it is a part of the body that is readily available in a sexual encounter but the boob is also a part of the body that once viewed as, "we all have them". While I have seen many while in a clothing optional event they no longer are at times noticed unless special attention has been brought to them.

I say enjoy the boob for what it is.  They're beautiful and unique to their owners.

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I want my title to be the Most Naked person in America!

The Title of this blog is...

TITLES

I've never had one of those name plates on the edge of my desk., I've never had my name or title on the door to my office.  I've never felt like or wanted to be labeled in any way during my life.  No matter what you do in life people will want to put you in a nice corner so as to better understand who you are.  Some people love to be addressed by their title or only recognize themselves by what they do or they letters after their name.  Even in the nude world I have seen that people will want to identify themselves by their tastes or kinks or sexual preferences.

Since attending clothing optional events I have come to find sub groups.  These sub groups can easily be identified and some lay just underneath the surface.  In life we have commonalities with everyone and the subgroups determine our friends and at times our enemies.  At a clothing optional event the obvious commonality is that we are mostly all nude.  The subgroups bring the flavor to the individual.

I'll begin with the term of being a nudist vs. a naturist.  When people learn that I don't wear clothes that often they immediately then ask, "Oh, are you a nudist?"  For much of my life I would agree with them so that their mind could rest at ease and they knew how to deal with that information.  I honestly don't like being called a nudist because for me it brings up thoughts of the AANR (American Association of Nude Recreation).  AANR is more of a very conservative, rules and regulations, contracts and a membership card.  How can I relax in the nude if I have all these governing guidelines to follow?  

Naturists on the other hand have a lot in common with a nudists.  Yes, both of them enjoy being nude.  Naturists as well enjoy being nude in a social setting.  Naturists are the down to Earth and communing with nature.  Naturists also stand for nudity with an asexual slant.  There are no sexual tendencies with being naked.  We all live in harmony under one naked roof.

Let's continue on with nudity but as what perspective that we have in our own mind.  Again, when people may hear that you enjoy being nude they sometimes go straight for the statement of, "Oh, you must be an exhibitionist."  Just because I like to be naked doesn't mean I'm hoping everyone is staring at my junk. When I'm naked at home alone am I being an exhibitionist for the cat?  That sick little monkey watches me way too long when I get out of the shower. Why won't he just leave the room when I'm having sex?  Damn cat must be a voyeur.

"Well if you don't enjoy being seen naked then you must be going to these parties to look at other people naked."  If you aren't as blind as Stevie Wonder than you just might catch a glimpse of an uncovered breast or ass.  AANR and most nude groups frown upon the practice of staring at an individual when naked.  You must respect their right to be nude as much as we are respecting your right to be among the nude.  Actually, this rule is not just for when you are nude in a social setting but for everyday life. This skill comes under socialization skills.  While attending these events it does come out in private conversations that people do look, People are curious.  People are not asexual no matter what group you are with.  

Then there are the relationship status' that a times are blurred and people use to try to explain who that other person is standing naked with them in the kitchen.  Those that called themselves Poly or are polyamorous are those that are dating more than one individual or at least have some part of an intimate relationship.  Poly peeps are those that may just want to sample many cookies at the same time or just don't have the want to be with just one person because of what another person may bring to them.

Swingers are a whole other ball of wax.  They can be Poly but most the time Swingers are into the relationship for the sexual factor whereas Poly want that connection.  It's just my opinion but many swinger couples blow up due to the fact that one of the members goes Poly and is in a deep love or relationship for a former fuck buddy.  

I'll briefly touch upon the sup group of BDSM.  All of the former sub groups can be seen at a nude event and you will never know.  When a BDSM person is in the room you also will not be able to tell since they are not walking around with nipple clamps or in chaps.  These couples save their subgroup to the bedroom or dungeon .  There are many times BDSM do not like to be fully nude or even in public.  Much of what they do are primarily for their joy alone.  

I could go on into other subgroups that consist of LGBT but that is mostly a sexual preference.  What I have discussed is what a person may bring to their nude life.  It's not an end all explination of the people there but it may show you that you too can be comfortable with who you are and what you bring to a nude gathering.

I love to be naked but I don't want to be called a nudist.  I enjoy being in nature but I'm not a naturist.  I honestly love to be seen nude because it's a big confidence builder but I'm not strictly an exhibitionist.  I don't stare an a great firm ass but yes I'll look and admire but not to the point where I want that person to be uncomfortable.  I'm not a complete voyeur but a person that enjoys the human form.  I'll admit that I have nude female friends that I feel close to but I'm not poly.  I count them as close friends that I at times see nude.  I have a relationship with another couple but we are not swingers.  Just because I love to be spanked and to spank other people doesn't mean I'm part of the BDSM.

There is no reason why we have to fit into a nice little box for others sake or even for your own sake.  I think it's better to blend in with all and therefore enjoy the company of a variety.

The only title I want is to be the Most Naked person in America!