Most Naked Person in St. Louis ( *** Warning : Nudity *** )

Most Naked Person in St. Louis

For quite awhile I always joked by campaigning to be the most naked person in St. Louis.  With much effort and handshaking mixed with stripping I think I'm pulling close to my mark.  Today, St. Louis. Tomorrow, the Midwest.  Maybe next year I can make a run for the country!

Why do I even strive for this moniker?  Why do I put myself out there like that?  What do I aim to gain?  

I could just be content to watch TV in my own home naked or just sleep in the nude.  I could reserve my nudity for the bathtub and shower only.  I could, but I don't.  I've seen that social nudity and other nude events brings more people together in a common bond that a common cold.  It's something we can all do and participate in but many don't.  And that's ok.  I know it's not everyone's cup of tea.  It may be for the young at heart or for those that wish to cross that last taboo topic out there.  The line always goes, "We were born naked".  Well for those early moments in life we discovered this world without clothes on.  I'm not here today to convince or preach.  It's what I always said I would never do.  If you believe that my leading by example is preaching then that is all that I am guilty of.  I will then take the moniker of the Most Naked Person in the Country if to lead by example and spread the word that being nude with friends or even alone brings a refreshing view of the world.

Here is just some of the ways I lead by example:

St. Louis World Naked Bike Ride

I was timid at first when doing my inaugural ride with the St. Louis World Naked Bike Ride.  I didn't know what to expect nor how many would be peddling next to me in the buff. When the night ended I was disappointed that it did end.  This was a fantastic night.  It was addicting.  The more I have been naked the more addicting it has become. Like any good drug pusher I had to assist in any way I could to grow the numbers of riders.  Each year since the ride has multiplied.  It is a yearly event that isn't just done in one night, it consists of numerous man hours beginning as early as March (ish) for the planners.  Obviously, these things don't happen over night.  We had a change in command this year that brought the bike rode solely to the Grove with the help of the Handlebar.  As I am a social media whore my main part in the ride is to inform the masses through social media and to continue the excitement year round to keep the buzz going.  I don't want any riders to fall to the side and I also want new riders to hear our church bell ringing.  Get ready for next year because you know you don't want to miss it.

https://www.facebook.com/wnbrstl

The Naked Radio Show on 1380X AM

Photo by Patrick Brehem

If any of you know Teya King then you know you should be ready for anything.  Her latest venture is hosting The Naked Radio Show on 1380 AM Extreme Radio.  This show takes places on Thursdays at 7 pm until 9 pm.  Any topic that is involved with being naked is fair game.  I have no idea at times where the show's direction will take the listeners much less myself.  Many people believe that a naked person can't be seen on radio.  Well take my word, I'd never sign on as co-host if I couldn't do it naked in the studio.  

Air time, for me, is a time when I can promote nudity on its good side.  It's also a time to get my pen name, Spencer Davis, (which I will discuss later) out to the public.  I'll say that not many people in radio or in everyday life has been in front of a microphone on the radio or on stage.  I like to say that I have done both.  If naked radio doesn't last forever, I can at least say that that bucket list has been checked off.  I'll make the best of it and use to enlighten the listeners to the joys of a nude world.  

If you have a nude topic or question that you wish us to address please let me know, if not then at least don't forget to listen in anywhere in the world.  Click this link for the ability to Live Stream on your computer.

http://1380thex.com/listen

Bare Business Network

This is a new addition to nude things that I have ventured into.  This is a fill in position while the main administrator is out.  It's a nude network that I am picking up the mail and letting the dog out at night.  I truly believe this network is needed and I'd be love nothing more to see it's mission completed.  Many jokingly say that they would love to work from home and hang out naked.  Oh trust me, I don't joke about it.  To build my Nude empire then I must reign true by being naked in the corner office.  

I'll post the Facebook's description of this site so as to not confuse the originators words,

We are an agency that finds work for our network of nudist/naturist workers. A new idea to redefine business casual. Support bare business. Hire a nudie!

Mission

To redefine business casual to include the nudist lifestyle.

Description

Why should you need to get dressed to earn a living?
Need a plumber? Hire a nude plumber. I guarantee the work will be the same quality.
Graphic Designer? Why should the the design be the only thing unrestricted?
Landscaping? Dirt washes off. Why dirty clothes?

All mainstream industries welcome. We are not a sex or porn company. Join our network as a worker or an employer. Part Time/Full Time or One Time.
You get bare talent. Stripped down with nothing to hide. Good, hard working people and nothing more!

https://www.facebook.com/BareBusinessNetwork

Spencer Davis

Before I even go into the writings of Spencer Davis I'll let you all in on a little secret.  How did I become known as Spencer Davis?  It all came about by my days at strip clubs in East St. Louis.  I saw that the strippers never used their real names so why should I?  They took on a whole other persona so why can't I?  Once I told the girl I was a parole officer they seemed to cool down their interactions.  If I'm going into a strip club I'll take on another name and occupation.  I became Spencer Davis and was a computer programmer.  I know very little about how a computer works but I thought it may pay better than a parole officer.

Yes, not all nudity relates to sex or sexual thoughts but some does.  I'll admit that.  When around other nude people you tend to get used to seeing boobs, butts and other areas.  Just because you get used to it doesn't mean that you never peek.  It may not be a leer or stare but it may be a quick glance.  It's there, curiosity gets the cat.  Don't get me wrong, even nudists have sex or sexual thoughts and feelings.  There is a time and place for everything.  I'd like to say they are in the pages of my erotica tales.  

I truly don't know how many erotica writers are nudists as well.  Many of them have perverted, sexual mindsets but aren't we all at one time or another?  I'd like to think I have a unique perspective on the subject.  To some I live in a fantasy world.  To some they could never even imagine being naked with attractive naked friends.  What I want to do is to capture that essence and bring them to life in black and white or on the Kindle to as many readers as I can.

And a final secret to being Spencer Davis is that when I write I'm obviously always naked.  That in itself can be dangerous and yet satisfying when I find a groove with a hot scene.  I tend to get way too involved with the story.  If I can get excited off of it I know it'll hit the mark with the readers.

https://www.facebook.com/pages/Spencer-Davis-Entertainer/880507151963633

http://www.cobblestone-press.com/

Photography

Photo by Steve Yancey

Even before I fell in love with being nude I was deep into photography.  I loved setting up a great scene and bringing it to film.  I guess I was inspired as do many great artists by the human form.  It was so perfect in it's creation no matter the shape or size.  the lines, the shading, the softness to it all. The body can say so much with just a simple arm gesture.  The camera and angle placement can shed light into an area that makes a whole scene come to life.  It's like eating a fine piece of chocolate when the view through the lens presents itself.

As seen above in the photos I love posing a nude model.  When I can be nude when posing a nude model and capturing a scene then I'm in a deep bliss.  Honestly, words cannot explain that feeling.  The zone of nudity is at its zenith.

I'm always in search of my next model and location.  Just thinking about my next shoot has me salivating for a camera in my hands.

STLBared

StlBared is almost celebrating it's first anniversary.  This group seemed to form up due to the numerous clothing optional events in the area but not having a true focus.  If you build it they will come.  It is a group consisting of members that have longed for a coordinated network of naked or clothing optional friends.  Once it was organized under the start up of Teya King it evolved into an almost weekly event schedule.  

My part in this band of merry naked people is once again in front of a microphone by being a co-host, emcee or improv comedy bit aficionado .  Another bucket list item was to do comedy or improv in front of an audience while completely naked.  Check that one off.  

To come to a StLBared event you may expect to see simple game nights down to dance parties or even burlesque dancers entertaining the crowd.  StLBared is definitely not a group where the members sit around and stare at each other.  You will be entertained by acts if not by your fellow nude friend.  Each event is tailor made to make sure you experience a nude time of your life.  There are rarely visitors that only come to one show or event.  It becomes an event you look forward to putting on your calender.

https://www.facebook.com/stlbared

Clothing Optional Yoga

As I have written above, my nude experiences are done with me in the spotlight or leading by example but yoga is my time to zone out and just relax into my naked self.  I don't have to perform.  I don't have to light up the room.  I just get to listen to music and follow the lead from the yoga master Ami Amore.  The gatherings are smaller in number than the other events and that's how I like it.  It's a more personal time to meet and greet old friends and the occasional new comer. 

In a few weeks I'll do a whole piece on nothing but a high light of yoga, Black light body paint yoga. This hands down is one of my favorite ways and times to be naked with friends.  I won't give away my next writing.  You'll just have to wait to hear more.

http://www.meetup.com/STL-Clothing-Optional-Yoga/

Modeling

Ok, ya got me.  I love to be seen naked too.  I love to be behind a lens or a sketch pencil but it's a major rush for this naked attention seeker to pose for another photographer or artist.  I began my modeling side as many do by posing in local art classes at the colleges.  This is not one of my more frequent activities.  It happens when needed but not looked for.  To pose nude these days is a throw back to my early days in this lifestyle.  It's a simple way for , I'll say, beginners to experiment with nudity outside of their own bathroom and bedroom.  

If I can help another creative individual get into their art form then I am happy to do so.  It doesn't take me long to get comfy to a studio or set.  

My ending note to this segment is that it all must have balance.  Without proper balance anyone of these activities can cause the whole house of cards to fall.  I think I wrote this blog to flush out all the areas of my life and to prioritize my schedule.  Dear God, I look back and thin I may be a little over exposed.  Either I am doing this for a true goal or I'm shedding my clothes for no reason at all.  I hope that you take out of this the need to look at what you enjoy and see that too much of a good thing is not always good.  It's a blast being naked but this is a long distance run, not a sprint to become the Most Naked Person in the Country.  Vote for me!

CUMBUSTER

My favorite scene was coming up. It was hard to believe a movie this great was thirty-years-old. I peered through the hole in the wall where the projector shot the film to the screen inside the theater. Goldsmith Theater loved offering the oldies on Saturday nights’ midnight showings. Sometimes the seats were packed, sometimes not so much. Tonight was in between.I tugged the licorice between my teeth when the door clicked closed. Pulling my gaze away from the movie, I turned to see what the manager wanted.

Only it wasn’t the manager.

Samantha leaned against the door and ran her tongue over her lips. That was enough to turn my dick to granite, but we’d played this game all summer and nothing had happened. Despite her appearance, I didn’t think anyway was about to change.Until her fingers found the doorknob and turned the lock.I want you inside me, sounded through the speakers with epic timing.Samantha moved toward me, unhooking a button with each step.  The white blouse hung open revealing her lace white bra and milky skin. I couldn’t move. This was unbelievable. The movie continued in the theater, but I’d lost all recognition of what was going on as Samantha freed her blonde hair from her pontytail. She straddled my lap, her navy skirt rising to her hips. I opened my mouth, but she shushed me with her finger over my lips. Her fingers hovered over my shoulders then traced their way to my wrists, pulling them behind the flimsy metal chair and tying them securely with her ponytail band.

She leaned away, a smile growing across her face. God, she was beautiful. Her hazel eyes twinkled in the dim light. I tried to free my hands because touching her would be equal to touching the Holy Grail. The elastic band stretched, but not enough. Samantha slid off my lap slowly, pressing into my bulging pants.The lights of the flickering movie highlighted her body as she shrugged the shirt off her shoulders. Her hand snaked up her sides and around her back. I thought she was going for the bra, but instead she slid her fingers toward her skirt and unzipped it. With a wiggle of her hips, it fell to the floor. Holy hell, she wasn’t wearing panties. Whether she came to work without them or slipped them off before coming up to the projection room, I didn’t know and I didn’t fucking care. The dramatic music from the screen enhanced the seductive dance, along with parts of my anatomy that were already well enhanced.

I shifted in my uncomfortable chair, wanting nothing more than to speed up the process. Samantha swayed toward me and put her hands on my shoulders. She squeezed slightly before letting go and dropping to her knees. Thank God she locked the door. If Mr. Goldsmith walked in, we’d be out of a job. And he’d probably end up in the hospital. Or run for his camera.Her gaze lingered on mine for a few moments. Long enough that the climax of the movie was getting closer. The jovial music now playing didn’t match my mood. My zipper came down and Samantha freed my erection. If only she’d free my hands. Her skin had to be as soft as silk. While I fantasized about touching her, she tightened her grip and licked me from balls to tip.

They go up, my favorite character from the film said.

Yes, I did go up. It was as if my cock was stretching for new heights just to prove to Samantha I could get as big as she needed.

She took me completely into her mouth, her tongue dancing a solo ballet around my solid mass. My hips thrust deeper into her throat until I almost lost control. Fuck, her mouth was warm and hot. I could only imagine how her body would feel around me.As if reading my mind, she pulled away and stood, putting one leg on the chair. Her smooth pussy was right at my eye level. I couldn’t turn away. With one hand, she rubbed her clit as the other hand worked its fingers into her body. I ached as she pushed herself closer to the edge. Fuck, I wanted to see her go over.

If someone asks if you’re a god, you say YES, one of the characters said just as Samantha moaned.She slipped her wet fingers out and pressed them into my mouth. I closed my eyes, savoring every lick of her as she guided me inside her. Using the chair to press me balls deep.

Grab your stick. Holdin’.Oh, yeah, she had it. Her hips lifted until I was almost out, then she slammed down on me.Heat ‘em up. Smokin’.Holy fucking heaven, we were smoking. If the room got any hotter, we’d burn the film. Make ‘em hard. Ready.

I wasn’t going to be hard much longer. Oh, fuck. She rode me like a bronco. I matched her thrusts, the smacking of our bodies echoing in the tiny space. I couldn’t hold off much longer, as much as I wanted to wait for her. My vision blurred. My breath shorted out. If my heart raced any faster, I’d be the one at the ER. But it would totally be worth it.

Throw it.

Samantha’s moans shattered the rest of my control. I felt her orgasm massage my dick into an explosion of its own. She collapsed against my chest. I kissed her neck because that was all I could reach. She sat back and smiled, her hair clinging to her forehead, then slid off. Not once did she look at me as she dressed. Not even when she untied my hands. I opened my mouth a few times, but there wasn’t anything I could say that wouldn’t ruin the moment.

Samantha sauntered out the door, pulling her hair back into its ponytail.I glanced at the movie. The characters were covered with a white goo.Zipping my pants, I smiled.  

What Trips Your Trigger?

The ways to reach that amazing state of arousal

Just recently I was given a list of questions to answer dealing with the almighty erection. The erection is the male tell tale sign of arousal.  It is the outward sign that the male has some blood flowing to his penis.  I stated that just because the penis is erect doesn't mean the male is mentally going to jump someone's bones.  It is just the outward signature of juices flowing. In the female there are definitely juices flowing as well as the vagina lips begin to be reddish in color and swollen.  Today's single question is what really trips your trigger or what causes the juices to start to flow down your thigh.

I'll begin with the five senses that most all humans have: Sight, Sound, Taste, Smell and Touch.  I recently read an article where couples were competing with each other and the winning team had the male's penis erect the fastest.  The erection had to come without manual stimulation or touch and insertion was obviously against the rules. What else can we do or have done to us that will get us excited enough to have our bodies modified in a pleasurable way?  Let me first deal with the easiest way in my opinion to become aroused, touch.

TOUCH

I'll say most orgasms are achieved by direct stimulation, either by a body part or an instrument.  The orgasm and release may be reached by these means but today's topic is how do we even reach the point of total excitement.  Before we even get to the section of arousal for an orgasm we have to have the body ready for release.  When touching is discussed it is not meant for just the genital region totally.  Someone may brush up against you seductively or rub your thigh.  The skin against skin feeling of a relaxing massage my be just enough to do it.  Where do you like to be touched?  Everyone is a little different and their area may be not the location you go straight toward.  Once you find that special area of a certain person they can be putty in your hands, literally.  

Pillows or couches or even bicycle seats all have been responsible for that cause of wetness to occur.  "Oh, I have to be careful riding my bike because if I start to get sweaty down there I'll start to really get wet".  I've heard this from female friends at the World Naked Bike Ride.  The vibration and the position of the seat between their legs has caused a fun friendly friction outcome.  For guys it may just be the movement of the penis within a pair of pants.  In addition, it may only take the feeling of water in a pool caressing the penis to be aroused.  Like I said, Touch is a no brainer to achieving the arousal state.

SMELL

In order to use smell as a catalyst for arousal you may need a frame of reference.  The sense of smell has been studied for quite a long time.  It's why we have a perfume section in the stores.  It may range from sweet smells to even a burly sweaty smell.  Smells are part of our primal sexual urges.  It is our way of deep down signaling for a partner and to show that we are ready to do the nasty.  The smell does not always have to deal with another person's aroma but it be be a smell that associates a person to a location or a time when a past sexual experience took place.  That whiff of a cool ocean breeze may harken back to a summer on the beach for Spring Break when early adulthood sex was at its finest.  It brings back memories and has a conditioned response or reaction to the nether region.  

For a personal story it doesn't go too far back.  In fact, the smell reaction took place at my last haircut.  It was not a place where I thought I'd become aroused.  The female stylist began her sculpting of my hair when all of a sudden I got a hint of some perfume.  I don't know what she had on but it made my penis jump toward the ceiling.  I was so glad for that backwards cape that they cover you with.  It served a few purposes that night.  It was all I could do to shorten the length of that unruly erection

TASTE

"Oh My Gawd, Have you tasted this chocolate cake?  It's orgasmic!"  The oral sensation of your favorite food may cause all sort of reactions.  It's what keeps us coming back for more at the buffet as well as the buffet of sensual pleasure.  Much of a sexual experience with a couple is begun with foreplay which at times includes oral sex.  Whether it be from ingredients from a Betty Crocker mix or even a taste of Betty the oral fixation can get the arousal state to the dinner table.

Maybe it's because I'm not a big eater (of food) but taste hasn't gotten me to that ideal state of arousal.  I wish I had more of a personal story for you but I just haven't had something on my tongue sweet enough.

SOUND

Phone sex revolves around this sense.  One of the most intense senses is the sense of hearing and sound.  Talk dirty to me. Tell me how you like it.  You want to hear that response of your partner.  It heightens the experience. It shows that the missile is hitting its intended target.  Although, the faked orgasm it ultimately held together by sound.  Oh God , yes baby give it to me. Oh ya baby, you know how to do it.  Not only does sound involve words but the physical sound made by a body in motion.  It could be the slapping of skin or the sound of moisture mixed with the actual physical sense of moisture.  

With sound comes direction , with direction comes control.  If a female says to take your clothes off or any gender hears another person is commanded to strip naked that may be just enough to entice that submissive into total arousal.  When a person knows that they have you in the palm of their hand they can order a meal at Taco Bell and have it come off erotic.  I knew a girl that could just yawn a certain way and I was a spent cookie.  Just the right sexy , sultry voice can win over a conversation.  If that owner of the voice knows what they are doing , they can be dangerous.  Just like Pavlov's dogs, an individual can be conditioned to respond in an aroused manner by a look, touch and even a slight vocal tone.

I must admit that more computer's volumes are turned down at night because of that sound that may give away a night of alone time.   You just want that video to not be so loud or the girl just needs to moan at a lower octave.  

SIGHT

An unfortunate by product of being a nudist and seeing my friends nude regularly is that I may be too used to seeing nude people.  Magazines and bares have lived off of the fact that people are ultimately voyeurs initially.  That young boy found his manhood by finding dad's Playboy under the bed.  Sight provided an in-sight into what he may be missing or what he will soon crave.  It's not tough to look at the opposite sex and see what you don't have and wish to have it.  

Sight offers up images of areas not normally touched on your own body.  It's an object of sexuality if raised to believe certain body parts are there for sexual experiences only.  If you are a nudist then you are comfortable around the opposite sex because you see the person before you see the body parts that you see on a day to day basis.  When you see a male topless cutting his lawn you see a hairy chested guy and move on from it.  Although, if a female sees a hot bare chested guy dripping with sweat that sight may just cause her to run home and strip those yoga pants off and reach for BOB.  We are in a day and age where the female nipple is campaigning for release from its prison.  If the female nipple is a normal thing to be seen then hopefully, possibly the female nipple or breast will not be so sexually objectified.  The female breast may look leaps and bounds better than a male breast but that doesn't mean it has to be hidden.

I won't admit to being a choir boy under my nude robes.  There are times when seeing a nude body in just the right moment or the right shape that trips your trigger that causes a reaction.  We are still human.  We still admire a shape and how mother nature has molded it.  

We have gone over the sight of a naked body but that is a static display.  If you get a naked or clothed body involved in almost any act the viewer can become aroused.  If she bends over to pick something off the floor and her perfect ass is displayed for you it can be lights out.  Gratuitous nudity is definitely used to pump up ratings for any move or show.  Oh the story may be perfectly written but add a couple boob or ass shots and you have a summer sensation.

THE MIND FUCK

I don't want to use the term Sixth Sense because then you might imagine Bruce Willis naked.  If that trips your trigger than so be it but put your mind on idle for now.  The psychological mind fuck can string a person along for hours, days if not years.  Depending on how string your mental will is you can fight against it if you want.  The idea of potentially seeing someone naked or clothed can drive a person wild.  Oh my God I can't wait until Saturday.  I hope they are coming.  I haven't seen them in so long.  Your mind alone can stir you up so bad that the build up is more enticing than the actual event.  

The term, "Wrapped around their finger" means that the ultimate mind fuck is happening to someone.  It may be lead by sexual favors or just some means of psychological control.  If you are wrapped around someone in hopes that you will some day be wrapped around them literally then you know that mind control is paramount when it comes to getting to an aroused state.  If all you have to do is think about a person or a possible experience then no matter what sense comes in to play the state of arousal will be on its way.

When I wake up as a human kick stand it does not happen by the senses since I don't wrap myself in clothes or silk sheets.  It happens because my mind is relaxed and a dream may have occurred.  The mind itself is a powerful thing and should not be wasted for it may be only way you can get your juices dripping down your leg.  I look forward to see what my day or night dreams produce.

THE UNKNOWN

I call this section the cover all.  There are times when you may get aroused for no reason at all.  You are God damn gifted Gump and can just walk around juicing yourself for no apparent reason.  As a younger teen into your twenties it may just occur because you were breathing.  The effortless state of arousal is some of the best surprises.  Oh hey, look what just happened.  It may be a combination of one of the senses combined with a self mind fuck.  

As an example, I was modeling at an event with a few other nude models.  One female model got down from her pose and sheepishly asked if anyone could tell how wet she got.  I honestly wasn't looking there.  She had stated that just being up on the stand and knowing she was being looked at got her all excited.  She just experienced an exhibitionists self mind fuck.  It is what drives exhibitionists to strip for others and enjoy the eyes doing the the elevator move.  We, I mean some, live off of that rush and use it for those dreams in the future.  

For my own experience with this unknown I shall set the scene.  I was enjoying a warm summer evening naked on my deck.  It may have been a relaxed feeling from a can of Bud Light and/or a warm summer breeze caressing my twig and berries but up it went to a strong erection.  I wasn't even in the mind set and the senses weren't truly at a high level but none the less I was ready for something.  That arousal state came out of nowhere only to be capped off with a full release as if a ghost hand had wrapped around me.  Let's say I didn't complain but was glad I didn't mess my shorts.  A natural arousal state au naturel.

BOTTOM LINE

What ever trips your trigger, thank what ever entity for it.  It will reduce your stress and make each and every day it occurs the most fantastic experience until your next piece of chocolate.  Turn your faucets on and let it out, up or in.  Clean up aisle three please!!!

It's best to strip naked with friends when it's blazing hot outside

Nature Fest 2014

It may have been blazing hot as a normal St. Louis Summer would prove to be but it was not going to stop me from enjoying my weekend.  When you plan an event or a vacation or even lunch you can't predict the weather.  You have to take your chances on what the rain or sun Gods thrown at ya.  

The awesome Teya King had wanted to do an outdoor StlBared event in the form of a camping trip for quite some time.  We wanted to give our nude crew some outdoor time together in nature and watch the good times happen before our eyes.  If you think an outdoor event with Teya will just be hot dogs and tent stakes then you don't know Teya.  She will book it, promote it as if it is a new show on the Vegas strip.  Come hell blazing temps or Jack Frost nipply weather a Teya show or event will be a blow out.  

The plan was for our Bared members to start the RSVP number but through advertising and marketing the numbers were bound to grow.  Although event locations ended up changing that did not stop us from baring it all in the wilderness.  Even though the sound band backed out on us, Edick's way played on into the late night hours.

I began my experience by showing up early on Friday to assist in setting up the campground.  I barely got out of my truck when an ATV pulled up.  This was my time to be shown around and explained the lay of the land.  There was a lake.  There were springs, gazebos, tree houses and chickens galore.  Yes there were farm animals all over the property roaming free as if not a care in the world.  Within a few hours naked people would too be roaming the grounds without a care in the world.  But before all that took place I had to mow some grass.  I was over joyed.

"Can someone get me a drink? I'm sweating my ass off!"  It didn't take too long in this extreme heat wave to make begin a large dose of swamp ass.  I have never looked so much right out of the shower without even being in a shower since my days in the desert around 29 Palms.  The heat was oppressive.  Could I survive this weekend?  Could I find it in me to enjoy being naked in this weather?  That's how much this lifestyle means to me and the friends I have around me.  I laced up my tennis shoes and decided I think I can make it.  It also helped that I fixed the AC in the A frame building and made a nest by myself in 73 degree temps.  

The first night at the campground found a bunch of naked friends circled up telling naked war stories and laughing the night away one drink at a time.  It was good to see the regulars and always a blast to see the newbies show up to see what we are all about.  We are always a welcoming bunch and may all at ease the best we can.  

The next morning I woke up with a big cock crowing in the morning and welcoming me to another naked day.  For a moment it was bizarre to to walk to the common area wearing what I fell asleep in.  "Ummm, did I forget something?"  Since I'm an old pro at this I continued on with my morning greetings and nawed on a banana and granola bar for breakfast.  After breakfast I decided to freshen up by taking a shower wherever I could find a high pressured hose to rinse the soap off.  Oh, I didn't skimp on the loofa either.  I spoiled myself with a good scrub down.  

Since these are the days of the ALS ice bucket challenges I thought this was the best time to pour ice water all over myself.  It was quite a team effort to make the video just right in the name of Spencer.  Please press play for your viewing pleasure.

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Now that the goofiness is done with in the morning it was down to serious artistic endeavors.  One of my passions is the product of great scene through a camera lens.  This weekend there had been planned a Nudes in Nature photo shoot.  Time to put my hat on backwards to get creative.   The perfect scenes and all filled in with sweaty nude bodies.  It was like chocolate combined with peanut butter.  It was like Peas and carrots.  What a combo.  I could feel the juices flowing all the while seat dripped into my eye.  I got down and dirty for this shoot. I wasn't going to miss an angle.  I get into my shots.  For a bonus I get sprayed down for another shower from another helpful nude participant.  They didn't miss a bit of dirt.  If they did then I wouldn't have been allowed back into the pool.

These are some of my favorites from the weekend.  

It truly took it all out of me once I out my camera equipment away.  It was all I could do to finish a hoggie sandwich that I had been nursing all weekend.  The last bit of energy was devoted to listening to a great blues band that came out to serenade us naked people under the hot starry night.  I was spent. The heat and activities had done me in.  No matter if I was in my element as a naked ass me  I craved AC.  I took my sweaty ass once again back down to the A frame alone and stinky.  The AC felt great but didn't help hide the fact that I was Naked and Afraid out in the middle of nowhere in pitch black darkness.  Jason from Crystal Lake or residents of a past by gone era were sure to show up.  With every creek or bang on the building  my nerves were worked up to a frenzy.  Oh God, please don't have a shadowy figure enter the room.  I said please don't! That story and how it ended will be for another blog.  

Once again my cock woke me up early in the morning and pointed me to the truck where the salvation mobile was parked and ready to see the highways.  It was a blast and sure to do it again once I rehydrate.  What a fantastic way to spend one of the hottest weekends in 2014! 

The ins and out of the Erect Penis otherwise known as a Boner

Quite recently a female friend had some interest in the erection or “Boner” as she called it.  Since she brought ‘Up” the topic in more ways than one I tasked her to write out her questions and I would as directly answer any questions that she had.  No matter the age of a person there are always questions about the opposite sex unless you may the famous Masters and Johnson from Washington University.  Even they had very little knowledge of the erection until they began their studies. 

I have been wanting to bring light to the plight of the erection for quite some time.  I want to de-villianize the erection.  I want to show that the boner as she called it is not to be feared and looked upon in disgust by some that misunderstand it. There is a major push to desexualize the female nipple as Scout Willis has recently campaigned in the anti-Instagram photo shoot.  Females have longed for equal rights for being topless.  A male may take his short off in the park or walking the dog down the sidewalk nut if a female shows her bare breasts it is not indecent.  Thank God some states have seen the light and have allowed the female nipple to be exposed.  At the moment burlesque dancers still maintain the pasty to cover that damn villain of a nipple.

The female that put me on the path of this blog spoke of one of her burlesque routine as a boner inducer.  She stated that she knew it was a hot routine and hoped it caused guys to get hard.  In the same way, strippers or exotic dancers count on erections to cause a guy to open their wallets to fund their night.  It is said that many men are guided by their little heads.  The boner is looked upon when needed for a method of motivation but not always welcomed and needing to be covered or even a cause of embarrassment for guys when they aren’t wanting one to be visable. 

 

I have modeled in the nude on many occasion and many of those times I’ve modeled alongside of nude females.  On more than one modeling assignment a nude female has come up to take a break from a pose and disclosed how wet she had gotten while in the pose.  The female is able to experience that state of arousal easily because of the lack of outward sign.  Even if a nipple became erect it would be tough to tell or even noticed.  While modeling I too have gotten excited but fought “hard” to stay flaccid.  My key to such calmness is by singing “I’m Henry the VIIIth I am” over and over.  It has always worked.

I am very appreciative of “Kim” for questioning me about my experiences and thoughts on erections or boners.  I use “Kim” because she does not want to have her real name used for fear that she wants more information and thinks about the male anatomy so much.  Here is my best attempt to answer all of her questions all the while maintaining a strong erection.

Kim: Do they hurt?

Maybe it’s because I like a little pain with them I’d say no.  Honestly, they do not hurt.  Even when faced with the hardest erections it may feel as though it will rip right through the skin the extreme pressure juts build more excitement.  When having an intense erection you are wanting that full pressure so it is a welcomed feeling.

Kim:  Can you control getting a boner? Can most men? Is it normal to control them?

Once out of your early twenties most guys should be able to control them to a great extent.  When younger even a strong gust of wind or smell of a hamburger could get a guy hard.  As I have mentioned before with a little bit of mind control most erections can be held back.  Alcohol is one item that prevents some lack of control.  When a guy is totally relaxed as in laying on the couch or sound asleep the erection can pop up with little thought or control.  Most mornings there is still that experience of morning wood where it’s so intense it wakes you from your sleep.  Luckily I still have those times when even a strong gust of wind can bring the mast back to the ship.

Kim: Can you pee with a boner?

When in the full erect fashion the tubes are switched so it’s either set to pee or to cum.  There is that time when the penis may look erect but the switch is still on pee mode.  Most the time if having a boner the only liquid will be cum.

Kim:  How do they go away? What can a guy do to make it go away?

At times it’s just a matter of time.  Letting the blood flow away from the penis.  That is the clinical answer.  You would think ejaculating would do it but it at time just reinforces it. Thought control is a great way and many try to think of a negative thought.  If that erection is meant to be it is tough to control it once it’s set on it’s path but continual thought control will achieve it’s goal.  Bottom line is don’t pay any attention and it’ll let go of all the blood in your system.

As an added note to this question:  To maybe prevent a boner during a time where you may think one will appear and you are wanting it to be avoided I have used the technique of let’s say “wearing it out” prior to the needed time when an erection is needing to be avoided.

Kim:  Can you really get blue balls from getting a boner?

Physically the balls do not get blue.  When a penis does not ejaculate during a full boner the cum does go back inside.  When at full erection the liquid is being slowly pumped to the tip and when at that right moment it will come out.  If an erection is lost for any reasons during that process the tip will still be moist as the shrinkage does not allow some to reenter the body.  For some it may look like pre cum.

Kim: What does it mean emotionally to get a boner?

For some as I‘ve said is an embarrassment due to their background and possible early shaming or complexes of one thing or another.  For others it is a proud moment to see their little boy rise to the occasion.  At times the erection means it is a moment before a sexual activity so the rush of excitement is there.  I would like to state while in this question a main reason for this blog is to show that being erect is not always a display of wanting to have sexual experiences.  As for me personally, If I become erect it just may be because I’m relaxed, enjoying the moment or aroused at the moment.  I enjoy the feeling whether it be emotionally , psychologically or physically.  The ultimate payoff may be the orgasm resulting from the erection but for me, the intense erection is the pay off of having this item attached to me.

Kim:  Does a boner mean a physical attraction? Just because a female is physically attractive does that mean you will get a boner?

No is the short answer.  A guy can get a boner from just walking around the house or watering his sunflowers.  What are they attracted to at that moment?  The microwave or the pollen in the air?  I’ve been naked around extremely hot naked females and have been soft.  Much of it is due to being so used to seeing nude females.  Much of it is in the mind.  A boner still at times has to be caused by direct contact.  If when nude and seeing a person nude or clothed hot female the mind has to be with it as well. 

Kim:  How old are males when they get their first boner? Does anyone explain it to them?

I believe I may have been around 12 or 13.  If there is nothing to cause the experience then it has to come naturally and without direct contact.  It may be that hot tv show that caused a young male to experience it for the first time.  For most males there is no explination and therefore the first discussion may be embarrassment or shaming by parents or my school or by religion.  In addition, since it is all new to the male they may not want to discuss or reveal this issue to friends or family thus causing repression.  Only later in life and through porn or self discovery the male may stumble with experimentation to find out how the erection functions and why.  The males first exposure may cause a long lasting imprint of the males overall thought and usage of an erection.  I could go on for days on this one. 

For me, no one explained it.  I just kind of went with it and figured it out in showers and “playing doctor” with the neighbor girl.  Religion and God was a major repressor in that an erection if not used under a bible’s guide meant hell is waiting for ya.

Kim:  Do you have to have a boner to have sex?

Ultimately you need some sort of erection to have sex.  It’s not that easy to insert a penis without having some rigidity.  Once inside you do not have to have a full on intense erection to continue through the act.  If you do “lose it” the ability to thrust is now gone.  Cock rings are good for allowing the penis to stay erect for quite some time due to maintain the blood level in the penis.

Kim: Does the size of the vagina matter to keep a penis erect?

Not always and I mean that it’s not always the tightness of a vagina that causes pleasure for a man and his erection.  It is also a combination of the warmth and moisture.

Kim:  What kind of sensation does the boner have right before ejaculation?

There is an outward display of fullness in the head caused by the extreme build up of pressure.  The pressure is so intense that it begins to electrify the skin all over the body that make cause spasms.  Once in the spasm moment causes an involuntary release.

Kim: Can you get boners repeatedly? How long do they last?

It is all caused by the blood movement so if there is blood and stimulation then there are boners.  I personally can reach orgasm and then continue with the erection.  Once again, it’s very much a mind game.  I also stated earlier that before some events where I don’t want a boner I may “wear it out”.  If I empty out what is causing the boner the less the chances of being erect again.  If unable to void any cum then a boner can come and go all day until relieved. It can be an annoyance if continually being reacted to by any slight thought or movement  throughout the day.

Kim:

Since I know you are a nudist does it hurt to have a boner in pants or underwear? Does having a boner feel better when nude? Do you feel you have more boners because you are nude so much more?

It doesn’t hurt to have a boner when dressed but it just holds it back from its full potential.  Of course it feels better when nude because it has more chances to reach its full potential and for me it has more excitement of the skin.  It’s extremely electrifying to be nude and feel the breeze across an erection.  Oh Lord I almost went into my erotica voice and wrote a chapter lol. Finally, yes I have more when nude because  it is able to relax and be free however if nude at an event then the activity dictates the want to have an erection as if on stage or doing improv comedy.

Kim:  Does having a boner mean you want to have sex?

I am so glad you asked that question.  For many who fear the boner or think of it as nasty or an embarrassment  do not truly understand the erection.  A boner is mostly in the mind and/or a natural reaction to blood flow caused by some sort of stimuli.  Wanting to have sex is not caused by a boner.  I’ll use the thoughts of gun control and shootings.  Guns don’t kill people; people kill people.  Boners/erections  don’t fuck people; people fuck people.  Just because a guy may be erect does not mean they are coming to throw you down and have it you.  That male should be judged by his actions not his physical reactions.

If Scout Willis wants to walk around without a shirt on then she should be able to.  If a person shows disgust at that sight then it is the hang ups of that individual.  If a guy gets erect then that guy with have goose bumps or a cough or a sneeze.  That guy is just having a natural body reaction.  There are many things that go into having a boner and many aspects of it.  I hope I have answered the questions posed to the best of my ability.  I know there is much more to say about them.  I personally enjoy every second of mine.  I tried to maintain one throughout this blog but I’ll say again over the course of time they too do not last. 

Cleaning the house is not always our favorite thing to do unless...

Cooking

Cooking for me is a major way for me to relax after a long , stressful day at work.  It's a way to control all that is in the oven and prepare a meal just how I want it.  When in the right time and situation I obviously will strip off everything to get fully into the ingredients.  For some odd reason I seem to be naked more times in the kitchen than in my own bedroom.  All those utensils used just right . :)

Aprons were meant for messy cooks and those who wished to fry bacon in the nude.  Feel  free to whip off that apron and break out your favorite recipe for lasagna.  Now that you are naked in the kitchen let the ingredients fly.  If naked pasta isn’t your thing then maybe a nice sautéed T-bone steak would meet to your delicate nude palette.  Some say that God’s original plan was for there to be naked vegetarian’s in the garden of Eden.  If that’s the case then why did he have to mention ribs?  For the average person the majority of time spent in the home is in the kitchen.  You must be comfortable in your favorite room so strip down and browse the cookbooks for a recipe that will allow a braising of warm broth upon your naked body.  Don’t let the microwave cheapen this adventure.  Preheat the oven for a full home cooked meal with nothing but the napkin getting in your way of experiencing nude delicious delights.  Don’t forget to save some leftovers for tomorrow’s nude reheating. 

Cleaning

It may be OCD or just my way of feeling centered at home but I need to have things clean and in their correct place. I need the dishes in the \correct pattern and the counters wiped off.  Mmmmm, the feeling of walking on a freshly vacummed carpet.  It may be because I just have to be naked doing everything but cleaning the house seems to require it.  It's not a job we all want to do but find a better way to do it.  If you put a ca,era on me you'll see me after 10 pm every night and on Tuesday mornings running around the house naked with a vaccum or doing the dishes.

It’s a necessary evil, it has to be done.  Grab a dust rag, a vacuum or a broom and prepare to make your surroundings sparkle.  You may want to dress as a French maid or just play the part with just an apron on but total nakedness will bring a weekly eagerness as never seen before.  It’s  a great excuse to run around your house naked with a bottle of window cleaner.  Once you finish cleaning the shower, just step in and turn on the water.  What’s even better is to bring all your dirty dishes with you to the shower and suds the pots and pans while you let the shampoo set in.  It’s a time for perfect naked efficiency.  So much can be cleaned while in the nude.  You must not forget all that laundry you can get done while naked.  It makes total sense to wash every bit of clothing at one time.

More naked adventures

After spending Friday night naked with a large group of friends I had to share it all with you on blog form.  Below I will state how it is a great time any time you strip off your clothes and bust a move.  As long as I have been going naked and then hanging out with friends , being naked when dancing is almost unnoticeable.  It's just the freedom of movement and the relaxed atmosphere.  When in a club your mind may be distracted by trying a line on a possible mate or just somewhere you may feel attracted to.  You even see that hot lil number she is wearing and just go nuts over.  When you look across a dance floor and see that person naked, well all that is left behind because at times it is a dream come true to be able to see a perfect body in motion.  

The shades are closed, you took the day off of work and Footloose is blaring through your speakers.  It’s time to strip down and dance as if no one is watching.  Do the happy dance because tomorrow is Friday or because gas prices went down.  Whatever your reason to dance is, it’s always better completely naked.  Ultimate bliss and joy spreads through you as you feel as if you are reenacting Swan Lake . 

Now dancing naked is one expressive nude adventure but when it includes a hand full of dollar bills then it is a whole way of life for the struggling college student.  Why work your way through undergrad in a fast food restaurant or at the mall when you can pay your rent, car payment and English 101 in one night.  Dancing for an audience on a pole or even in a burlesque show is naked expressions at its Fine Arts best.  The graceful movement of the bare legs, the twist of the hips and movement of a bare butt can tantalize the best of viewers.

Nude Photography

No, you may not be Hugh Heffner or Larry Flynt but most people can say they have had a nude photo taken of themselves.  If you haven’t then you most likely have seen a nude photo of a Playboy model .  Ok, now if you say you have never seen a photo of another person while nude then I’m not sure you realize this book is about the art of being nude.  Please close the book right now and look for the nearest  exit.  Nude photo locations are around every corner since it can be seen through this book that any place you can stand or sit you can do it while naked.  Being naked for all to see is definitely a rush but added with the lasting power of a photo the naked experience is multiplied.  With the right lighting and certain amounts of shading a not-so perfect body can still show off the skin in a sensual form.  Whether you are playfully strutting your stuff in the bedroom, in the park, on the beach or posing for a magazine let your inhibitions strip away as the flash blubs pop.

I've taken photos of nude people many times and have been nude in many photos but soon I'll be nude as the photographer while shooting nude subjects.  I'm so excited to be working with some of my favorite model friends and do it all in the great outdoors.  I won't say too much about it now but stay tuned for a sampling once I make them proper for this blog.